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Life-Decision Council

Convene a panel to think through a big personal decision.

You walk away with

A clear-eyed weighing of the options and a recommendation that fits you.

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Recommended level: Standard — Proven pro models — the everyday default.

What the council debates

Help me think through a big personal decision. I want different perspectives, not just reassurance.

THE DECISION:
[the choice I am facing, and the options]
WHAT MATTERS TO ME: [my values, priorities, the life I want]
WHAT I AM AFRAID OF: [the fears pulling at me]
WHAT IS PULLING ME EACH WAY: [the case for each option as I see it]

Debate:
1. What I am really optimising for, beneath the surface options.
2. The strongest case for each path, argued fairly.
3. Where fear, ego, or other people's expectations are steering me.
4. The reversibility of each option and the true downside.
5. The version of me in five years looking back — which choice they thank me for.
6. The question underneath the question that I should actually be answering.

FINAL SYNTHESIS:
- A clear weighing of the options against what actually matters to me.
- A recommendation, with the reasoning, while respecting that it is my call.
- The one question to sit with before I decide.

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